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Request: Please bear with me on the complex looking title for this blog post. That is the closest I could get to explain what I want to explain.
Any job you take, there are two kinds of skills that you will work with
1. Core Skills – that help you with your core job. If you are in software, than that would be programming, design, testing etc.
2. Portable Skills – you might also call them supporting skills. “Support” here is sort of “over-loaded” meaning they are supporting you to help you get your job done and they are also supporting you to grow. These skills usually go the background. Examples of them are communicating well, working with teams, leadership, conflict resolution etc.
If you lack in core skills, you will suffer in the short-term.
If you lack in portable skills, you will suffer in the long-term.
If you lack in core skills, others will notice you immediately and it hurts.
If you lack in portable skills, you will not STAND OUT of the crowd. It sill hurts but in the short-term.
Rarely does your employer spends time, energy and effort to get you better at your portable skills. They want you to perform well in your core skills but they expect that you to develop your portable skills on your own. A small percentage of them will develop them anyway and they start growing in their careers and the others fade away. So there is no “extra effort” required by employers to do something special for employees. Statistically, things just work out fine for employers.
However, it is YOU who have to take care of yourself as it is your life.
Here is one way to take care of yourself – increase granularity of your portable skills.
Granularity is the relative size, scale, level of detail, or depth of penetration that characterizes an object or activity. If you don’t focus, your portable skills are typically less granular than your core skills simply because anything short-term takes over anything long-term. You have to force yourself to increase the granularity. How do you do it? By giving equal importance to your core skills and portable skills development. It seems easy but it’s not. Since there is no external pressure to improve your portable skills (your employer wants you to deliver flawlessly with your core skills and they expect you to have “enough” portable skills to support this) it is only YOU that can take some solid action.
There is enough material online and offline to take you to the next level on your portable skills. What is lacking is awareness to make this important in your life, motivation to do something about it, action (actually doing something about it) and sustenance (to continue to keep at it)
Note 1: Here is a Squidoo lens that links to most of the previous articles in this series:
Squidoo: Distinguish Yourself
Note 2: The first 25 entries in the series have been packaged in a ChangeThis manifesto that was published on September 07, 2005. You can download that manifesto here:
ChangeThis Manifesto: 25 Ways to Distinguish Yourself (PDF, Free)
Note 3: My latest manifesto on ChangeThis was published on August 6, 2008. This is a photographic manifesto featuring 15 of my mini sagas (stories in exactly 50 words). Here is the link:
ChangeThis Manifesto: Mini Sagas – Bite Sized Lessons for Life and Business (PDF, Free)
Photo Courtesy: AceFrenzy on Flickr
You may have very little use of a single puzzle piece. I can’t argue with that. But let’s explore that a little further…
Being likable alone may not be an asset but not being likable may be a liability
Having long term relationships alone may not be an asset but not having them may be a liability.
Good communication skills alone may not be an asset but not having good communication skills may be a liability.
I can go on but the pint is really simple – any one puzzle piece may not be an asset but the NOT having that puzzle piece (when you are almost ready to complete the puzzle) can be a big liability.
Every puzzle piece is important when viewed in conjunction with other puzzle pieces in the puzzle.
View a single puzzle piece e independently and its easy to dismiss its importance. View the same puzzle piece in conjunction with other puzzle pieces and you will find the very same puzzle piece invaluable.
Really, its not the puzzle piece but your ability to see that puzzle piece in the right context that makes a world of difference.
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Note: This is part of an ongoing mini-research (less than six weeks each) on topics that catch my attention. At the end of this post, you will find links to outcomes of the other two (previous) mini-research projects.
Over the years I have heard many young people complaining (in various flavors) that they work hard but their hard work goes unappreciated. To be more specific, here are some complaints:
1. I did most of the work but my Boss got all the credit
2. I work in the evenings and on weekends and all that happens is – my company takes me for granted.
3. “They” don’t really care how hard I work. It hurts.
If I have to summarize the various flavors of complaints into one sentence, it would look something like this – “I am a victim of someone taking away credit for my work.” So the real question becomes “How can you prevent someone else from taking credit for your hard work?”
When I started my mini-research work, I suspended my bias on the topic and just listened to people as they complained and probed them further to get more details of their specific situation. Upon further digging in, research, reflection and analysis, I reached some conclusions and I have presented them below.
Yes, I agree – in a few cases people were victimized and they were treated unfairly. In those cases, I don’t know why the victims were continuing to be employed in that company. Either they had no other choices or they were “really” stuck (an example: the company had applied for their Green Card and they wanted to get through that process)
In most cases though, I found that they had to take complete responsibility for their situation. If there was ONE over-arching reason for their situation, it was their interpretation of “hard work.” Here are the final observations that led to the “victimization”:
1. Working hard because of lack of skills: This is their first job and they had to “walk the extra mile” to ensure that they develop the skills required to complete the job on time. The company does not “directly” benefit from their skill-update exercise.
2. Working hard because of lack of competence: This is similar to #1 but here you simply lack competence and they are not aware of it.
3. Confusing “time spent” to “value created”: There was a general notion that whoever spent more time contributed more value. This is far from truth. One can spend a lot of time creating zero value or sometimes eroding value or even creating headache for someone else who is creating value.
4. Forgetting the value of experience: There is one general but thousands of foot soldiers. When the battle is won, the General gets the credit. When the battle is lost, the General will be blamed. Foot soldiers are very important but they are replaceable. Generals are not easily replaceable. It is easy to forget that Generals have paid their dues earlier for a LONG time before they reached that position. With that experience, it is easy to “better interpret” the situation and tell the soldiers what to do. Even if the soldiers work “very hard” they may not be able to “interpret” the situation as well as how a General can interpret it.
5. Forgetting that the commodity stuff can’t get a premium: If one spends a lot of time on commodity work, it can be hard work but it is something that “someone else” could have easily done for the same or less price (consider outsourcing or offshoring or both.) If you are “easily replaceable” your hard work does not count much. If you are a “linchpin” instead, you start getting a premium.
6. Not knowing how to tell the “right” story about one’s work: When someone completes a job, “they” don’t see a job completed but a story about the job that got completed. If the person who completed the job does not take the responsibility of telling the “right” story about the job that got completed, whoever needs to know about the job completed will tell a story to themselves about the job. That may not be in the best interest of the person who completed the job.
7. Too much humility; too little pride: One needs to be humble but too much humility hurts. Similarly having too little pride hurts. The ultimate combination is right amount of pride and humility. If there is an imbalance it creates a competitive disadvantage.
8. Thinking the employer alone is responsible for career growth: Sometimes people think that the employer is “obligated” to take care of their career growth. They forget that they are “already” getting paid a salary for the their contribution and the employer provides a framework for them to grow. That’s the most an employer can do. Rest is left to the employee – they can sit on the sidelines and watch others flourish or get cracking to go somewhere.
9. Confusing affiliation with the employer as their personal brand: This was more common with employees working for VERY big brands. They were proud of that affiliation and had a tendency to confuse their affiliation with this BIG brand as their personal brand. Affiliations help but they are not a substitute for “valuable accomplishments.” Employees get special attention if they build big personal brands but they get nothing “extra” for affiliation.
10. Confusing brilliant storytelling to showing off: There were also cases where I heard people saying that “their work should speak for itself” and they didn’t have to tell anything else. What they forget is that brilliant storytelling is not showing off. Storytelling is an art. Showing off is a desperate attempt to gain attention. Storytelling is helping people “interpret” what happened in the right way. Showing is interrupting for personal gain.
There were a few other minor observations but the above were worth sharing.
In summary, take a look at your own case. If you are feeling victimized AND there is a clear case that someone else is “responsible” for it, you have to think whether you want to continue being associated to that place. If you are feeling victimized and it is your own making, you have your work cut out – take responsibility for it and make the necessary changes to make things happen.
Here are the outcomes of the previous mini-research initiatives:
1. Why some smart people are reluctant to share? (Dec 26, 2009)
2. Why nice people will win BIG TIME in the long run? (Jan 15, 2010)
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A few days ago I spent a day in Dubai. I was fascinated by many things there – especially the Palms – a township that was entirely constructed on reclaimed land inside the sea (almost a few kilometers from the shore)
On our way back, we stopped at the Marina and again, the skyline there was impressive. Here is a one picture to give you an idea.
Right next to where we were standing was a building that would become part of the skyline soon. It was a building in the making. The scene was of that of the foundation where people were busy building things that would soon become unseen but very important. I talked to the folks who were supervising and they mentioned that the foundation work would go on for months. You see, the “unseen and important” work happens over a long time to make the “seen and beautiful” happen.
It is the same case with anything “remarkable.” There is an “unseen and important” work that is mostly behind the scenes. The final outcome is what we all get to cherish.
The point here is that in the case above, it is easy to notice the “unseen and important” but in other cases such as when you see brilliant talent at display (writer, musician, public speaker) you might skip seeing this. For your own benefit, the more you can quickly see the “unseen and important” for anything remarkable, the more power you have.
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This was in 1986. I was one of the 400,000+ students who had just finished writing the first major board exam. We all had to wait for a few weeks before the results were announced. When the results were finally announced, I was delighted to find that I came in at the 20th position for the state. I was studying in a town called Hassan and the last time someone had secured a rank at the state level was a few years ago. I had got good marks but it was not one hundred percent.
The same year on November 1 – there was a big event in Bangalore where all the top rank holders were felicitated by the chief minister of the State. I met the rest of the rank holders. I also had a chance to meet Arun Hiremath (later my classmate and my friend in Engineering) who had secured the first for the State. The point is even Arun had not secured one hundred percent marks.
[ if you are curious, here is a detailed account of my teenage years ]
Long story short – I secured state and University ranks in the next three board exams and met other rank holders from those exams. The point is none of these people had secured one hundred percent marks.
I have kept contact with many of these bright people and they are doing very well in their careers albeit not securing one hundred percent marks.
So, what’s the real point?
First, there is no one or nothing that’s perfect and you don’t need that as a pre-requisite to do very well.
Let me now switch the context to lifelong learning.
I meet people almost every week who have just completed one or the other training to improve themselves. The trainings range from improving their life skills (meditation, relationship skills, communication etc.) to improving their professional skills (public speaking, leadership, teamwork etc.) When they complete the training they are very enthusiastic about how this one training program will totally change who they are for good. A few weeks later, the charm wears off and a few months later they rarely remember anything from the course.
Of course, many of them have very intelligent explanations for why they stopped practicing things they learned.
One of the common excuses is that they find “something” in the course that they didn’t like. Examples include:
- the teacher did not give a convincing answer on a couple of questions
- there was “one” thing in the course on which they had a philosophical disagreement
- they didn’t like that the teacher marketed the advanced course at the end of this course
- they didn’t believe in a couple of concepts outlined in the course
I can go on but the underlying theme was that they were not satisfied “one hundred percent” with the course – so there was no point in continuing the course.
Just basing your actions on “one hundred percent” of anything is not a recipe for failure. It is a recipe for disaster.
The same people are pretty comfortable about they not executing their projects with a “one hundred percent” perfection but they expect others to perform at that level.
It is one rule for themselves and another rule for others.
Think about your own case. How many things have you dropped or stopped because they did not deliver “one hundred percent.” Which of those things can you restart today?
Something to think about.
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There is a reason they say – “A picture is worth a thousand words.”
There is a lot to learn from the kids who created this picture. For one, they could have just written – “The world’s best Dad ever” on a greeting card. That alone would have bought tears in the eyes of his Dad – Jason.
The kids (and whoever helped them) went out of the way to make it memorable.
Just take a look at what they did and you will be amazed at their creativity and thoughtfulness. I am sure their geek (assuming here) Dad would have been on Cloud Nine.
Have a great day.
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Everyone has heard the phrase:
Do you want some fries with it?
This refers to the standard up-sell offer from McDonalds. You buy a burger (or almost anything) and while the person in the counter rings that he or she looks up and asks,
“Do you want some fries with it?”
The offer is compelling and it works. Most people take up that offer and McDonalds wins.
Now, let’s look back at our lives.
You will get an opportunity to up-sell all the time. Every time someone makes a simple transaction with you. A brilliant up-sell might get some appreciation for marketing brilliance but that’s not what will make someone memorable.
Imagine that we change the game a bit – let’s say you forget about the opportunity to sell or up-sell. Let us you just decide for the rest of your life, you “look” for opportunity to give gifts.
In simple terms, a gift is something that (note: partial list only)
* Will help someone be better than who he or she is OR
* Will help someone get closer to their goals OR
* Will help someone have more capacity to contribute OR
* Will help someone have more capacity take care of things they care about OR
* Will connect them to someone that will increase their capacity in the future OR
* Will help someone make more meaning out of their lives
Now, suppose you were able to do that for the rest of your lives – with almost everyone that you touch…
Do you think your own life will be more meaningful?
Then, why not start today?
It is easier said than done.
First, you need the “mindset” of gift-giving that is ON all the time. It takes time to develop that.
Second, you need “capacity” to give gifts. Based on all of our histories, we all have some of it but it is a life-long process to build this key asset.
Third, you need to be “growing” so that your “gifts” are more powerful with time.
Lastly, there has to be healthy balance of taking care of your concerns and taking care of the concerns of others. Just because you have the mindset of “gift giving,” there is no need to “sacrifice” yourself or your dreams.
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You’ve probably seen those thirty-minute, late-night television infomercials that tell you a story about a product in all its glory.
After about twenty minutes into the commercial, you have been repeatedly told that your life is incomplete without this latest gizmo. You’ve heard others enthusiastically state how the item changed their lives and brought them health, wealth, happiness, and love.
Strangely, it doesn’t seem to matter whether it’s a vegetable juicer, a home fitness implement that fits within a doorframe, a diet system, or a miraculously absorbent towel from Germany. Suddenly, you start to feel the gap in your life!
You start wondering – how much does this gizmo cost?
Well, the marketers have anticipated your question. But they won’t tell you the answer just yet—no, let’s hear another testimonial first.
Even after that, they won’t divulge the actual price right away. If they give away the actual price at that point, you may think it’s too high. So, the strategy is to reveal the price and make you feel lucky when you finally hear it. It goes something like this:
“Let me tell you. Typically, items like this one sell for six hundred dollars or more. However, today we’re offering you a very special deal. We’re not going to sell this for six hundred dollars.”
“At three hundred dollars, it’d be a steal. But that’s not what we’re going to sell it for.”
“At one hundred dollars, you’d see a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.”
“Today, it’s only ninety-seven dollars. This introductory offer applies to just the first thousand orders. We still have 390 items left. So call now!”
You are thinking that this may be your chance to be in the “exclusive” club of people who will own this for a song. Compared to $600, $97 looks like a steal.
As you are thinking about it, there is an announcement.
“Wait, here is a special deal. If you call in the next ten minutes, we want to offer you one extra gizmo for free. You buy one and you get one for free. You can give this extra gizmo to a friend or your colleague. Do whatever you want but call in the next ten minutes. Operators are standing by. Please call now.”
That nails it.
In the first twenty minutes, you are convinced that you really need this gizmo.
In the next five minutes, you have been “educated” on the value of the object. Prior to the infomercial, you may have had no idea of the product’s cost. But now, you have a benchmark—it’s not one you invented. It’s a contextual decision based on information provided to you by the marketers. You’ve accepted their pricing frame of reference.
In the next minute, you are convinced that if you act quickly, you might be in the exclusive club of people who can own this gizmo for a song.
In the final minutes, you are convinced to act now—so you can get something for free.
Really, they tell you – you have got to act now to get in the exclusive club.
I know, I know – you are not one of those people who will fall for this kind of gimmick. You are way smarter than that. But the fact is that these infomercials are produced with big budgets and some of them produce millions of dollars in sales.
Someone out there is falling for this marketing approach, for sure.
And if you remember, the Bernie Madoff scheme required investors to be part of the “in” network. When people see an opportunity too good to be true, they misapply their frame of reference. They want to believe. They want to act, because they fear that they will be missing a great opportunity.
Instead of asking “What if this offer were true?” maybe we should ask, “Are there some reasons that this offer isn’t as good as it seems?”
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You can check the time on your cell phone. Or you could buy a reasonably good watch for less than $100.
So, why would anyone buy a watch that is north of $2500.
Obviously not just to check the time.
So, it must be the stories that the watch makers tell about why you need to buy them.
Here are some samples (photos from the world’s largest mall in Dubai)
First, let us take Omega.
You may want to buy it because it is George Clooney’s choice.
That doesn’t cut it? OK this should do it. Omega is also Zhang Ziyi’s choice
Jaeger-LaCoultre thinks you might have never really worn a real watch (that is unless you own a Jaeger-LaCoutre)
Third, Tag Heuer
They have been making watches since 1860 and have a rich history. Plus, you might want a watch that is accurate to a 1/100 of a second.
Fourth and final, Patek Phillippe
You have to look at them because it is multi-generational story. According to them, you never really “own” a watch. You just take care of them for the next generation.
Photo Courtesy: Tsja! on Flickr
You drink water when you are thirsty. But the doctors say that you need to drink at least eight glasses of water everyday to stay healthy. Most people ignore the advice and stick to drinking water only when they are thirsty. While they can ignore the advice they can’t avoid the consequences of ignoring that advice.
Drinking eight glasses of water everyday requires going out of the way – meaning you need to drink water even when you are not thirsty. Seems odd to do at first but if you get into a habit, you will get used to it.
Thirst for knowledge works the same way. You can acquire knowledge when you need it (thirsty) or you can develop a habit of acquiring it throughout your lifetime.
The latter is of course the “healthier” choice.
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